The Love Compatibility Test

Most couples do not fall out over the big things. They drift apart a little over the small ones: how many evenings to spend together, who notices the dishes, whether a free Saturday means a plan or a blank page. These everyday habits are easy to live with until two people do them differently and neither has said so.

The Love Compatibility test in SlowMind is 28 short questions, about five minutes, that put those habits into words. Then comes the part that makes it different: you can send one link or QR code to a partner, a date or anyone close, and see how the two of you fit.

It is a mirror, not advice. It will not tell you who to be with. It shows you where you already click and where a conversation would help.

Seven everyday sides of a relationship

The test looks at seven ordinary parts of life as a pair. For each one, you land somewhere between two ends, and neither end is better.

• Time together. From plenty of space of your own to shared evenings and daily check-ins.
• Showing affection. From quietly warm to openly affectionate, in words, touch and small gestures.
• Social life. From a homebody to out and about.
• Planning. From going with the flow to planning ahead.
• New things. From familiar favorites to an explorer.
• Home. From relaxed about mess to tidy at home.
• Money. From enjoying it now to putting it aside for later.

The questions are about you, in the first person: what you like, what you would do. They are not about "us", because your answers should describe you, not your couple. Your own result is a short relationship style across these seven sides.

Single right now? Answer for how you are with a partner, or how you think you would be. The test works the same way.

What the questions are like

Most of the 28 questions are statements you rate from strongly disagree to strongly agree. Some are short scenes, where you pick what you would most likely do. There are no trick questions and no right answers, and your first instinct is usually the honest one.

The part that makes it a pair test: compare

When you finish, you can invite someone to compare. Here is how it works:

• One link or QR code. You choose who to send it to. You can put the link in a group chat, and each person who takes the test gets their own comparison with you.
• No app and no account for them. They open the link on their phone, answer the same 28 questions in their browser, and see the comparison straight away.

What the comparison shows

You both see one page, built from the two sets of answers:

• An everyday match percentage, with a plain heading and one honest line under it.
• The seven sides, side by side, with both of your markers and a label on each: click, small gap, or talk about it.
• Where you click and where you will need to talk, in a sentence or two each, written for both of you at once.
• One conversation to try this week, so the result turns into a real question over dinner.

The percentage measures one thing: how alike your everyday styles are. Research on couples is clear that similar habits explain only a small part of how happy two people are. How you treat each other, and how you talk about your differences, matters far more. That is why the number never appears without the lists of where you click and where to talk, and why every page carries the same line: this is not a prediction, and couples at every number make it work.

A gap is not a flaw. Plenty of couples do well with one planner and one improviser, or one saver and one spender, once they have said out loud how they want to handle it. The test simply helps you say it.

What you get in SlowMind

The Love Compatibility test sits in the Relationships category of SlowMind. Once you finish, you get:

• Your relationship style across the seven sides, with a marker on each scale and a short summary, free.
• A way to compare, with a link or QR code for anyone you invite.
• An AI-personalised reading written from your actual answers, in Premium, along with insights and a course.

Frequently asked questions

Is the love compatibility test free?

The app is free to download, and every test is free to take, with your scores for each part. Your first reading, for the test chosen for you when you join, is free along with its course. Premium unlocks every written reading, with its insights and its course.

Does my partner need the app or an account?

No. They open your link or scan your QR code, answer the same 28 questions in their phone browser, and see how you compare straight away. They only need the app if they want to keep their result.

Can it tell me if our relationship will last?

No. The everyday match shows how alike your day-to-day styles are, nothing more. It is not a prediction or a verdict, and couples at every number make things work. Its job is to show you what to talk about.

Can I take it if I am single?

Yes. Answer for how you are with a partner, or how you think you would be. Your own style is yours to keep, and you can compare it with a date, a partner or anyone close later.

Is this therapy?

No. SlowMind is a tool for reflection, not therapy, diagnosis or treatment. It can help you notice your everyday habits and start a conversation, but it does not replace a qualified professional. If your relationship feels painful or unsafe, please reach out to one.